The 'Dependa' meme refers to a specific stereotype within military culture involving a spouse who feels entitled to the honors, rank, and perks of their active-duty partner. Often called 'Dependapotamus' or shortened to 'Dependa,' the meme gained traction across social media platforms like Reddit and Facebook to mock individuals who demand to be addressed by their spouse's rank or brag about having the 'hardest job in the military.' The trope often features imagery of 'I’m a Proud Army Wife' merchandise and highlights the disconnect between their partner’s service and their own demands for special treatment at base exchanges or local businesses.