The 'Where the Hoes At?' vs 'When the Hoes Arrive' meme serves as a classic commentary on social performance and the shift in energy when an audience appears. It typically features two contrasting images: one of a person looking lonely, bored, or disgruntled while asking for company, and a second image where they are suddenly 'locked in,' dancing, or acting impressive the moment the party starts. This format gained massive traction on platforms like Twitter and TikTok, evolving from simple party jokes into niche variations involving gamers, specific subcultures, or even animals. It highlights the relatable human tendency to 'turn it on' when seeking social validation or romantic attention.