The 'Ur Scaring the Hoes' meme is a popular slang expression used to tell someone that their behavior, niche interests, or intense discussions are potentially off-putting or making others uncomfortable in a social setting. While the phrase has existed in internet slang for years, it gained significant mainstream recognition and a surge in usage following the announcement of the 2023 collaborative album by rappers JPEGMAFIA and Danny Brown titled 'SCARING THE HOES.' The meme is typically used to roast people who dive too deep into topics like experimental music, complex video game lore, or niche technical subjects while at a party or in a casual group. It perfectly captures the hilarious disconnect between one person's intense passion and the actual social vibe of the room.