The 'She/Her, They/Them, Cool Hat' meme is a playful subversion of the standard practice of listing pronouns in social media bios and digital spaces. It usually features a three-panel or three-step progression where the first two labels are common pronouns, and the third is an absurd or endearing physical trait, most notably a 'cool hat.' This format gained traction on platforms like Twitter and Tumblr, where it serves as both a lighthearted commentary on modern identity markers and a way for users to highlight their favorite aesthetic choices. The meme is highly customizable, often used to validate gender-neutral identities while adding a layer of ironic or self-deprecating humor about what truly defines a person's character.