This iconic clip originates from Season 9 of The Real Housewives of Atlanta (RHOA), which aired in 2017. The scene captures a heated dinner confrontation between Porsha Williams and Kandi Burruss regarding explosive rumors circulating within the group. As Kandi repeatedly demands to know the source of the gossip by shouting 'Who said that?', Porsha Williams delivers a legendary performance of feigned confusion. Looking around the room with a bewildered expression, Porsha repeats the phrase back to her, effectively gaslighting the entire table. Today, the clip is a staple of internet culture, used to represent situations involving selective memory, deflection, or genuine bewilderment. It is the ultimate reaction for when someone is caught in a lie or wants to pretend they aren't the source of the drama they created. Example captions include: 'Me looking for the person who spent all my money,' 'When the teacher asks who was talking during the quiz,' and 'My brain trying to find the source of my own bad decisions.'